So I'm dealing with a person, who is not a significant other... who because of an incident involving a notification on my phone and the Superbowl, lead to me being labeled as a "pervert".

And to note, I'm not a "pervert".

How can i get around to having that person understand that? They don't shun me, but make all sorts of fetish jokes (all the fetishes) around me.

well everyone is perverse to deny that is to deny you being human. A pervert is proud and lets the world know of his/her perverseness.

^A message sponsored and approved by Perverts for a New Future, a Lolicon and Loclicon enterprise.

So I'm dealing with a person, who is not a significant other... who because of an incident involving a notification on my phone and the Superbowl, lead to me being labeled as a "pervert".

Can you give anymore information? Obviously you need to prove in someone absolutely that you're not a so called "pervert" in order to stop the jokes, although I don't know how I would suggest to do that because I don't think I understand the situation.

So I get a notification on my phone whenever an online artist makes a new picture.

So I got a notification. And I opened it. And it was an image. Unlike any this artist had made. The artist doesn't usually make this kind of stuff. i was pretty surprised they did that. But with Murphy's Law, that was the second this person looked over me and saw it. This person proceeded to tell everyone else at the party.
What made it more interesting for them was that I was the one who over a few drinks, they said was "most likely to be asexual".

And Loli, the point is that this person thinks I'm a pervert, when I'm not. What they meant by pervert may not have been the same definition as yours, considering you're (in)famous for posting porn on the forums.

What image did you see then?

A sexual deviant is a sexual deviant no matter where he is.
Plus what is wrong with being a pervert.

Are you trying to convince 1 person or everyone at that party? The latter is obviously much more difficult to do.

If you're just trying to convince 1 person, compile a list of images that artist has made and just show them to the person in question. At least this way they'll know that they just happened to view the 1 image that was a bit "sexual" or "weird", and that even you were surprised to see it.

So I got a notification. And I opened it. And it was an image. Unlike any this artist had made. The artist doesn't usually make this kind of stuff. i was pretty surprised they did that. But with Murphy's Law, that was the second this person looked over me and saw it. This person proceeded to tell everyone else at the party.
What made it more interesting for them was that I was the one who over a few drinks, they said was "most likely to be asexual".

You apparently have the wrong friends.

Just tell him/her what you told us. I'm guessing you already did that, else you wouldn't have posted. It sounds like the label bothers you, so you can do 1 of 3 things. Ignore it and the person will eventually lose interest. If the person is reasonable and not a total jackass, you could pull them aside and tell them how much you hate what they are doing. If they are a total jackass, doing that would backfire, because it would show them you are really hurt, and they just like hurting people. Or (my favorite of the options) you could do you best to laugh along. Make yourself the butt of the joke. Start blowing kisses and winking and fake-coming on to your antagonist. Then they will be put in your situation and they will either be too uncomfortable to continue, or they will keep the joke going, and you will be on equal ground, all laughing about it. Also, this option works because everyone will make the connection that if a pervert is interested in someone, that someone must also be perverted. Equal ground.

So I'm dealing with a person, who is not a significant other... who because of an incident involving a notification on my phone and the Superbowl, lead to me being labeled as a "pervert".

And to note, I'm not a "pervert".

How can i get around to having that person understand that? They don't shun me, but make all sorts of fetish jokes (all the fetishes) around me.

Take some hostages and demand that this person listens to you.

Make yourself the butt of the joke. ~ HankyPinky

Depending on what the picture actually was, this may be an unwise phrase to use. ;)

Edited 3/30/2016 15:18:45

You're screwed mate.

Tristans right the only way you'll regain your AMERICAN honor is to shoot up a school.

It doesn't really matter if people know that it was an accident of not it will always be used as a good too joke to take the piss out of you. Depending on what the pic was (I don't see why you can't tell us) when someone mentions it don't act annoyed just act serious in a sarcastic way.

Jai, that's not a bad idea...

And everyone else at the party has acccepted I'm not. Just this one person.

Thanks you all for your help with this situation. Let's delete the thread before Fizzer shuts me down or some troll gets into it.


(just for your interest Loli, it was bondage. I know the Internet holds darker things, but I'm a pretty normal person when it comes to such things. AKA not interested.)