Link to game
http://warlight.net/MultiPlayer.aspx?GameID=1449303
You joined a 2 min speed game. Meaning you have 2 mins to submit your orders. Why should you gain an "unfair" advantage over any player with extra time just because you have more troops to deploy?
If you want to take your sweet time to make sure your orders are the best they can be play multi day games. If you enjoy watching turns and taking some time to think of your orders play 5/10 min boot games.
Are players in chess allowed extra time on their clock? Are basketball players allowed extra time to cross half-court? Are football players allowed extra time to snap the ball? rules are rules, i suggest you read settings before joining a game and follow the rules.