Also, finally, following Styxie's comment: a woman on WL may be more likely to behave in the way you don't want than a man. After all, these are women who (1) are used to move around in a male-oriented environment and (2) interested in a game that has connotations with war tactics and requires abstract thinking. I think most will be blunt enough and stand their ground just like the average man on this site, rather than being all cutesy as you think they may be.
That's probably the best part of this hole thread.
In my personal experience, girls in WL are way tougher than men. I would be disappointed if I played the ladder with Styxie and she behaved like the partner you want xD
Plus if you really want to team up with someone that fits your "ideal partner qualities", you should at least have some proved skill so that they want to play with you...
