Blah,blah,blah. Most of this discussion will lead us anywhere, but not to a good result.
Boot time is 3 days.
And it everyone and his dog is used to it. We won't change it. Nothing against you (@johnmd), but everyone in the competetive strategic scene knows, that sometimes real life hits in and you have to play a bit slower. Nothing wrong with that. 3 days work fine.
Stalling is a different issue and through my eyes stalling is:
a) Play on a completly lost game
b) Play significant slower than usual in a very bad situation
Playing slower in a close game is very usual for most of the players, I noticed it from pretty much everyone. Only if you competly do not care about the result, you will play as fast as usual in such a game.
Stupid statement. Warlight was meant to be played at about a 2-3 day pace per turn or else it would not be 3 day boot.
Just because you can take 3 days/turn doesn't mean it should be standard. I see it more as an offer if you can't be online on weekends for example.
A slow opponent may be annoying, but I would not say it is unethic in any kind of way.
Edited 10/20/2017 20:50:04