"But in the past couple of weeks, I have found that not all members of this community can be enlightening or approachable."

Hi. Welcome to Earth. It's filled with assholes. They're everywhere. Running from them will leave you with no place left.

The goal is not to run from them, it's to get thick enough skin that they don't bother you.

The alternative is never staying in any one place for long and constantly hoping that the next place you arrive will magically be different.
Hint: It won't be.

Hint: nobody cares about your hallmark card advice my man

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