If you need to woo a Dutch Jewish girl that is in mortal peril in civil war era Dixie Land, look no further than /his/. Ignore if this doesn't apply to your situation, thx
Considering your situation, wait until you're able to settle in a place, or find someone who's willing to move with you to the locations you will be going. Otherwise, a long-term relationship is probably not in your or the girl's best interests.