if anyone wants to help I would be really grateful
No one wants to help. No one wants to do your project for you. Everyone wants to make themselves happy. No one but your mom and dad wakes up motivated to do anything for you. Ever.
You have an idea? You get to do it. You do the recruiting. You make the wiki. You delegate the ranks. You create the games. You start the conversation. You do it all.
If you want people to play with you, you will get a response that reflects the effort you put into getting others to play with you. So far, all you've been willing to do is go onto a forum and say, "Hey, anybody want to play with me? I've got a game I made up but I haven't figured out all the rules, what do you think they should be? And we need a bunch of people to play and maybe you can find somewhere we can play it 'cause I don't know." See the problem?