gonna try to make thins alittle more simple
http://WarLight.net/MultiPlayer.aspx?TemplateID=11
copy and paste that in your adrress bar as an example template
1. you will press next and it bring you to your invite list the map is a strategic 1v1 template select any 1 player
2. your are brought to the page which allows you to name your game add a host message choose weather the game will be real time or multi day
3.select either multi day or real time, once youve done this the option will be given to you to set a boot time
p.s. hedja i was following along the steps myself to make sure i didnt miss anything so now we get to play a game yay!