FW: politics, religion
As for your situation, are you talking about the extreme red people, or regular red people?
Regular Trump country dudes and church ladies. Mostly the late teens/early twenties dudes, though, that get a bit fighty if you inadvertently challenge their views. You can't tell me you haven't met these people.
Either way, if you're gonna pull the "they're just extremists" card then so am I: woke anti-capitalists are not common where I live. I have never met anyone who would take offense to "project."
CA isn't woke. Californians voted against affirmative action in 1996 (Prop 209) and 2020 (Prop 16). We voted to ban local rent control in 2018 (Prop 10) and again in 2020 (Prop 21). Unlike Missouri, Texas, Georgia, and a total of 42 states, we have a state ban on race-based college admissions (
https://ballotpedia.org/State_data_on_colleges_considering_race_in_admissions).
CA has 11 million immigrants (1/4 of US pop). 53% of immigration to California since 2010 has been from Asia. Are first-generation Asian immigrants known for their wokeness?
The Democrats are a broad coalition; even their progressive Bernie-loving wing is ideologically diverse. In my experience, the woke anti-capitalists tend to be either kids whose perception of society comes form social media and parroting others' talking points without understanding them (basically the blue versions of you, which might explain why your friend is like this) or people who screwed up college/employment and wound up with massive debt and/or academic careers in the humanities. Basically, anti-capitalists (not social liberals or social democrats but actual anti-capitalists) tend to be people who have either not yet experienced capitalism or have not succeeded within capitalism and therefore blame capitalism in general since it's the status quo.
Here's what household income looks like in coastal California (courtesy of the Lutherans):
Wow, we must be
full of anti-capitalists! Gee, all these counties with median incomes in the six figures must
love tearing down capitalism.
Yeah, I don't buy that this state is woke and leftist. Maybe in the Berkeley area, but you might as well point to the rural parts of the state and say we've got a concentration of aggressive anti-maskers.