EDIT: When is this getting moved to OT? It's a troll thread.
swore off the monthly membership
A (functionally) political boycott like this won't work because the Membership isn't a donation. It gets you a fair bit of value (posting memes on forum, accessing API, creating modded games, being able to create enough tournaments to run Captain's League) that most highly-active users would probably prefer over $3.99 (or however much it costs).
Suppliers are able to extract a portion of the value they create. IOW, if I sell apples, the maximum price I can charge you (and the maximum degree to which I can disregard your interests as a consumer) is bounded by the value the apple creates for you. In practice, apple sellers aren't able to take full advantage of this because there's
a lot of apple sellers, they compete for your demand, and consequently they lower prices and increase quality.
But suppose there's only one apple seller in town. They can really milk their apples. Consumers could get mad and say they'll boycott the seller, but they still get more out of buying the apple than not. Buying apples is a positive-sum transaction- if you exchange $5 for a honeycrisp, it means you would rather have the honeycrisp than a crisp $5. When you buy the apple, you're not donating to the apple seller; you're pursuing your own interest.
So if you're mad at the apple seller, you'd need to think of something different. You could maybe take over the apple stand and make it a non-profit, detaching it from the system of incentives (but somehow creating new incentives that align with what apple eaters want). Or you could get other apple sellers to come to town and create competition.
Of course, you know this already. When the apple seller goes after the pear seller to make the pear seller pay them money for selling too similar a fruit, you actually
do donate to the apple seller because they tell you the apple stand might close and that scares you. You know you have no leverage. You can't even imagine a world where the apple stand exists without the apple seller. The apple seller owns you.
Embrace it. There actually is no solution, because anyone who could sell apples could make a lot more money by selling guavas with the same skill-set and effort. That the apple stand exists in and of itself? Total miracle. You will buy the apples that are made available to you, and you will like them, because you still get value out of it. In fact, perhaps the only winnable scenario- in which you haven't already lost- is where you're somehow right about the apple seller's innate altruism. So maybe it's pragmatic to keep treating the apple stand as if it somehow exists outside the system of rational incentives. And to keep appealing to the apple seller as if he has your best interests in mind and is doing you a favor, even when evidence points to the contrary. Because if you're wrong, you've already lost.
Edited 9/18/2021 22:11:24