Dear Aranka
It`s true, you give me a hard time. I wish it would be when playing you though, instead of when reading your comments.
Since with every post you make, you feel the urge to explain not only yours, but other peoples behaviour, the reasons behind any minor detail, the world, the universe and everything beyond.
And since you do it with either ignorance and/or audacity, as if you perceive yourself as some kind of Prometheus, enlightening our darkness with the light of the gods, without having to pay his price, i will respond to you for once with a bit longer post.
Female warlight players have achieved enough, considering their few numbers and rightly they deserve their place here as equals, but it`s not due to your efforts, but rather to Raveras or mostly [WG]Summers who actually arent afraid to compete in anything worth mentioning. They don`t permanently need to coquet with their gender to make them the centre of attention either.
Also, I know you always need to conjure up some imaginary battle of sexes female vs male, so as to remind everybody that you are the girl. It is as if you would fear that once they forget, you run risk of them realizing you are just the average little girl from next door, that is eaten up by her insecurities.
I know that since Warlight is mostly played by nerdy sociophobic male adolescents whos intimate contact with the other gender is reduced to watching online porn. In that enviroment you can keep that going successfully for a quite a while, maybe even endlessly. But let me tell you, and I know you hate to hear it, to those, with a bit more age and experience, your behaviour is not only getting dull and repetitive, it´s becoming sad and pitiful.
There is no battle of sexes. There is no war between men and women.
Of course we all, in the process of flirting, exaggerate the differences between the genders, to create sexual tension and love interest. To have a spark alight, that fires our mutual desires, by playfully antagonizing the object of our very desire, because we are too scared and somehow unable to establish a direct link from our hearts to our mouths, instead of taking the usual detour through the mind.
But a battle of the genders?
Nothing could be further from the truth.
A lovers task is to support the other. That means for a man to be there for her.
But there is a common misconception. To be there for her doesnt mean when her sweet or sexy little ass is needed to be carried from one place to another, but when her scared and scarred soul is needed to be carried from one hard day to another.
Not only protect her, but to teach and help her to protect herself again without keeping distance. To show her what a lovely desirable person she is, what a gift she grants to anyone that she allows a glimpse on her soul, to anyone she shows her weaknesses and allows for him to show his in return.
If we dont find the strength and courage in ourselves to break the barriers of fear we have set before us, we will become cynical and egomanical. Bitchy and loveless.
Only then, we will make the battle of genders a reality.
If we dont accept that as a fact, we deny ourselves the most beautiful thing we can ever get in our lifes. To mutually make our insecurities disappear, to uncover that true beauty that lies underneath all the fears and selfdoubts and to gain the strength and appreciation that we all need and deserve. That is the task of a man for woman and of a woman for a man.
Or man for a man and a woman for a woman if you so wish.
And stop reading beauty magazines.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sTJ7AzBIJoI
