Why do i keep being put into quick games?
Is it supposed to be like this?

go to quickmatch and unselect the invite me box

It's because inviting to quick matches is turned on by default. Go to quick match menu and untick the box for inviting to multi-day games. You won't see any new gems popping out

Thank you both for the quick answers!
I've been going crazy over why i have random games starting :P