You just gotta work your AI and win despite a disadvantage
http://warlight.net/MultiPlayer?GameID=2479642
Making an abandoned seat in an ongoing game available for anyone seems like a great option to me,
i suspect many will hate it as well but that is why game-creators can decide on things like this when setting up a game
This is where suggestion go:
http://warlight.uservoice.com/forums/77051-warlight-features