Whereare you getting your history from??
I must ask you the same question in return. Because your information is partial/incomplete.
The French nobility were enamored with chivalry and wanted to have the romantic charges instead of attacking on foot as the English did.
Well the exact same thing happened when the English tried to conquer Welsh kingdoms and the gaelic kingdom of Alba.
But that romantic thing (again a subjective judgement) has nothing to do with the feudal organisation that France had during that period.
Chilvary and Feudality were dominant in Europe, because they were effective not because of romantism. But after the 100 years war, that changed, and the Noble lords little by little gave up their power for the kingdom and feudality ended.
I'm actually French so there is no bashing there.
Ah vraiment? Le fait que tu sois français ne change en rien cela. Je suis moi-même très critique envers l'histoire de mon pays. Et l'auto-dénigrement est plutôt courant en France, bien plus que dans les pays anglo-saxons dû à notre histoire.
The situation was super complicated
Yes it was ^^ you could compare it to the Game of Thrones' universe: betrayals, struggle for power, family, love and hate... G.R.R Martin himself said he got inspired from the English War of the Roses and the Accursed Kings of France.
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