well Zephyrum perhaps you're fine with your skype getting cracked and getting all your private things read and then a person writing about it semi publicly. Good for you, but i have to say i don't share your opinion
My good sir, if you say anything supposedly secretive in a large skype group, then it's not a "private thing" to begin with.
And I digress, there's really no serious secrets a risk community can keep from others other than pure, unadultered drama.
The way I see it, you're annoyed because you were dissing someone from their back and it backfired because said person heard about it. I know your pain, I still hate Bane for that. But if there is something I learned from it, is that secrets aren't quite meant to be put publicly.
That said, I'm too balls-deep into a discussion/problem that isn't mine. My point was given, up for everyone to debate the situation now where and when they feel better.