I'm too individualist to have a partner. I don't want to share my bed with a girl and have to see her from morning to night no matter how sexy she is since I know attraction is useless and all pretty girls become old ladies with no sexual appeals one day (or unfortunately died before getting old).
I want to live my life in peace (Shalom/Salam/Shlama) and do not want to have a girl bother me from morning to night, having to consider her wishes and having to serve her needs.
your problem is you need to find a girl that you love. not you just want to fuck, that's stupid. Like I don't want to marry someone for their body. I want to marry someone because I love hanging out with them, making them happy. not to raise a family or pass my sperm on, That sounds depressing as fuck.
"Pretty" means nothing. No human is as pretty as the trees and grasses, cats and rabbits. You feel that a girl is pretty but she is actually not. You are merely deluded because you are sexually attracted to her. If you marry her she will one day no longer be sexually attractive.
i guess. but if i think she looks beautiful why should i care if other people don't?
I'm not the only one that gather threads to downvote.
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First of all, sexuality and activities related to sexuality are not beneficial in nature to the individual. Humans don't have it that bad for the sake of sexuality. Many animals die after mating. Some male animals actually get eaten by their partners but still choose sex over life. Male peacocks also become vulnerable to predators just for the sake of sex. How good is sex? Not at all.
k, but we are humans. they can't enjoy sex, that's not how those animals function. however humans do.
Secondly there is no freedom in sexuality since humans are compelled by evolution to have sex and reproduce against their own interests. Humans do not choose to have sex, instead they are forced by evolution and societies to do so. Hence anti-sexualism is freedom unlike sexuality which is slavery.
so ... then are virgins not human? and where do i sign up to have my government provided sex? like ... how am i forced to have sex? Like if two people decided that they didn't want to have sex and instead just adopt children, nobody would give a fuck, they pretty much just give them a thumbs up.
Hence anti-sexualism is freedom unlike sexuality which is slavery.
this is going in my quotes on my bio
This is not anti-individualist. Freeing individuals from sexuality is similar to freeing them from suicide attempts, drugs or slavery. It ultimately increases the degree of human freedom and reduces the degree of human authoritarianism hence it is individualist in nature.
but what if i wanna have sex, but then i wouldn't be able to because the government doesn't give me that freedom. aka less freedom. freedom = people choose weather they want to be addicted or not. However I can agree with your thought. Society would be better without addictions.