Thank you Sephiroth haha.
As for Johnny Silverhand, I deeply disagree with this statement:
When someone criticizes you, they're doing you a favor. Communication should be optimized for information, not for being nice to the person on the receiving end.
Communication should be optimized for information? That's demonstrably false. If it were true, we should all be speaking in the most complex manner possible at all times. We should be teaching Shakespeare to babies and talking about our deep love of multivariable calculus fresh out of the womb.
But we don't. Communication is about being UNDERSTOOD by the other person. And apart of being understood is being NICE. No one is going to listen to you if you're being a jerk to them. You could be 100% right, but no one will seriously consider what you say if you're super aggressive.
There are, of course, other reasons to be nice to people. I think it's kind of problematic to view mere friendliness as something that must bring "value" for you to consider being friendly.
If you actually think someone criticizing you is doing a favor, then let me do you a favor. You're a jerk, and you should chill out. But, I suspect, me telling you that isn't a favor right?
You're just trying to make justifications for your disgusting behavior. Stop.
Edited 5/13/2021 07:54:24